IN LOVING MEMORY OF

18 AUGUST 1939 - 4 AUGUST 2002

CLICK HERE TO SHARE Bruce Brodoff Marilyn's Son Enjoy this beautiful site dedicated to my beautiful, one-of-a-kind mother.    I'd like to extend special thanks to my great friend Dave Zuckerman for devoting countless hours and boundless creativity to this project...his dedication and generous spirit is much appreciated by the Brodoff family. Steven Brodoff I met her 38 years ago (almost 39) at Brooklyn Woman's Hosptial I just wanted to say that this section where people can leave their thoughts and memories is really terrific... I just read the comments made by Ilene's friend Beth and laughed out loud when I read her comments, especially the reference to the cigarette behind the glass hanging up in my house. I had completely forgotten about that and it just brought me right back to my childhood in a flash. :) I guess this is what this section is all about. And thanks to my brother and his friend Dave for creating it... Barbara Danielle Harrison She saw me 'pop' out as she would always say  on January 15, 1986....She is my Grandma. I am sure I will probably share much more as time goes on, but I want to start here by saying thank you to Uncle Bruce and everyone who helped him make this site. It is a great comfort to me to be able to check in and see her face and read what other people wrote, etc. I am so lucky she was my Grandma. I could go on forever but I'll stop and say: I love you Grandma and you will always be with me. (And I love you more!) Ilene Jane Harrison She is forever my loving mother Dear Mom,    It is very hard to believe that you have not been with us for over a year already. We have been through all "the firsts", which have been incredibly hard, as well as the simple day to day times that we wished you were here.    What I could share about my feelings and memories would fill volumes, and have too difficult to organize, as is evident by my not writing on this site until now. Also, for some reason, my beginning to write this came easier as a letter to you, versus writing it as a straight entry.    My mind goes in all directions as I think about our life together. Some samplings:    When I was younger, you were there to show me love, help me grow, sing and dance with me, come to my shows, support me in school and work,share our love of Kings Bay Boy Clubs and The Bay, help me do my hair and makeup before a date, open our house to my friends,go shopping with me, lift me up when I was sad,teach us how not to hold our feelings inside or to hold a grudge but to yell, fight, talk it out, never go to bed angry, share fun times, worry with dad when I was late coming home, leave your signature "red lips' mark on my cheek after a kiss...    When I got older, you were there to celebrate my milestones, help set me up at Downstate, share the ups and downs in my love life, show me all that goes into a successful marraige, share my happiness with Lou and his family, help move us 3 times in 2 years, join us in the delivery room to watch Barbara come into this world (you called her your "jack in the box"), share in our call to announce your granddaughter Michelle's birth, give your love and time to develop a beautiful relationship with your granddaughters and Lou, help me out when I would say "does this smell or taste right to you?, share through the cards and letters that you always wrote to us beautifully expressed feelings, organize a suprise for me when you got tickets for us to see Barbara Streisand and then we took at horse a buggy ride after the concert, share "tea and tears" with me whether in person or over the phone,share your love and enthusiam for your last job with Mayor Giuliani and all of the events that you beautifully planned for his office, show us how to always look at life in the best way possible, how to be strong even in the worst of times, how to keep kind words flowing, never to be bitter or jealous, how to show love and caring to family and friends and others not so well known, and how to fight the fight.    I think I will stop rambling on right now, but I do feel better having expressed some of the things that are always floating around in my head, when I think of you. Not a day goes by that I don't miss you, don't get that moment's thought of "Let me give mom a buzz", or don't see your imprint on things that I do and say.     Though the reason Marilyn's Place came to be were not of our choosing, we feel that as a place of comfort for those going through difficult medical times, you would be proud to have it carry your name with love. The room in Phillips outpatient division has the furniture in, a TV and stereo will be installed, the bookcases are ready to be filled with books, the walls are awaiting your painting,photo and other items, the plaque is being inscribed in your beautiful scripted handwriting, the art program is ready and other programs will follow as we grow. A second room in the hospital is already set up and will open soon as well. We also hope to set up some larger areas as space becomes available.    I am very lucky to call you my mom,    Always,  Ilene  Beth Klein Ilene and I were friends in grade school What a beautiful site!    I can remember playing over at the apartment on Shore Pkwy and Ilene going on and on about Michael Jackson and other black entertainers. Marilyn said, how about anyone Jewish and Ilene said, "Sammy Davis, Jr!" I also remember that there was a cigarette in a little plastic case on the wall of the hallway with a small ax attached. It said "in case of emergency" I think your dad had quit smoking and it was there to remind him. I remember that your mom was a very warm person - I always felt comfortable in your home. Rosalie Tanaka We met in in the Mayor's Office of Film, Theatre & Broadcasting... What a woman! To know her is to love her and to truly understand the meaning of love.    I was lucky enough to meet Marilyn when she was volunteering at the Mayor's Office of Film back in the mid-90s. Her show-stopping brains, talents, energy and "star quality" was so obvious that one day I suggested that she might consider taking-on City Hall. The rest is history!    Marilyn is, and always will be my hero.    With much aloha,    Rosalie Sy Dill Joey couldn't keep her a secret forever! Joey:    I remember a special time when I happily bumped into Marilyn. It was 1982 and I was working on Wall St. I had completed my first very small deal and I was thrilled and jubilant walking around downtown Manhattan. No one knew of my success then. It was late in the afternoon and while leaving my office, I happened to see Marilyn who was working in the area. I told her about my good fortune and she beamed and glowed and congratulated me as if I had been the man that conquered Everest.    That wonderful, special scene as well as so many others, will always stand out in my mind. Marilyn will forever be with me.    Your ever loving old buddy,    Sy Dill Sheila Cohen 36 years ago when she worked in the drug store Beauty is skin deep besides being beautiful on the outside her beauty was within. She was the kindest most loving giving friend. Every time I was ill she & Joe were always there. I miss her bright big blue eyes that always twinkled and her smile.    dearly Gerald Fierst We sat with her at the Katz Family Seder once a year Marilyn , Joe, Marge and I would always sit together at the Katz family seder. It just happened that way until it was something we looked forward to as cousins in law and their families became our own family. Although we would only spend one evening a year with Marilyn, it was always a special time and I think of her now as always generating a special light, part love, part delight in life, part interest in whomever she was with. As she struggled with cancer, her bravery and life force was an inspiration and model for courage in the face of life's difficulties. Marilyn Parker I'm Marilyn's first cousin on her Dad's side When I visited Marilyn and Joe in the Poconos a few years ago, Marilyn and I went shopping together at her favorite place--yet another garage sale. I bought an electric pencil sharpener and an insulated food container (which I still have). The pencil sharpener resides on my desk to this day.    Marilyn was ecstatic over some bargain that she bought at the sale. Her enthusiasm was boundless. You would think we just returned from a jaunt to Tiffany's or Lord and Taylor. Judy and Jerry Spitz We met her through Joe, a childhood friend of Jerry's Three brief recollections:    1) Marilyn had a great sense of humor, able to laugh at others as well as at herself. We were playing a game called Celebrity in which she had to quickly give clues to identify known people. The clue she gave was "oldest living American Jew" and surprisingly someone correctly guessed Irving Berlin. The next morning she said she couldn't sleep, thinking that not only did someone get the answer, but how many myriad of other clues she could have given to describe Irving Berlin. She had a great laugh!    2) Marilyn as a youngster was head of the Brooklyn Dodger outfielder Duke Snider Fan Club. It was near the end when she and Joe joined us for a wonderful lunch and she regaled us with stories of her childhood, baby-sitting for the Duke and getting to know him so well. We were amazed to find another side of Marilyn we had never known.    3) Marilyn was such a compassionate person. She not only always called to express her caring for us and all her other friends, but also wrote us frequently in her beautiful handwriting. Her notes, whether congratulatory or in moments of sadness, were lovely and touching and always filled our hearts with joy.    She was truly a magnificent woman who we will always remember. Rosalyn Eisner 1st cousin There are too many great memories of Marilyn to mention in detail. However, she was staying at our house for the summer in Monticello, when I met my husband. We shared lots of girl talk and lots of laughs. Marilyn was my maid of honor at my wedding and a beautiful maid of honor indeed. She is in all our wedding videos and 3d slides. She will stay in our hearts forever along with lasting memories. Myron & Marilyn Rothman Friends till the end. Marilyn was the type of person that you would always want to be with, because she always had a positive outlook about everything no matter how bad the situation. Till the end she was always upbeat and made you feel that way just by talking to her, knowing she was in bad shape. She was a wonderful woman and will always be in our memories. Elaine and Stan Davis We are second cousins on her mother's side We will always remember Marilyn,  As a ray of sunshine,  A most courageous woman,  An inspiration to us all,  Truly a Woman of Valour,  A beloved wife, mother, grandmother, cousin and friend.  We miss her and think of her often.    Postscript. Millie her mother,and my mother, Sylvia Berman Schub,were first cousins.In so many ways Marilyn often reminded me of my mother,especially the beauty of face and heart, and that fighting spirit. Must be the Goldstein genes. Spencer Garrett Mayor's Office Buddies Mariyln is one of those people who will remain in your mind for life. She and I gravitated towards each other immediately, and never drifted apart. She had a way of lifting your spirts, even when hers was down. We "crashed" several functions together at the South St Seaport and Wall St.area. My favorite was a concert to see Bette Midler at the Garden, which she wanted to see. We were in the office, and it was 4:45 pm. She'd had plans that evening but they had changed, so she decided to go The Garden. Even now as I write this, a smile comes across my face, as I recall the wacky conversation that we had waiting on line. As we neared the box office window people were being told that nothing was available. Mariyln approached the window, asked how the gentleman was doing and turned on her "Mariylnism" charm. Need I say that we walked away from the box office with 12th row tickets, cener aisle at balconey prices. :-)    Mariyln was full of sunshine, and love, love for her family and her friends, some of us who were lucky enough to introduced as her extended family. I miss her dearly, but, I do not mourn her, because she is, and always will be in my heart, and my thoughts. Marilyn is like the line from the Carley Simon song "Nobody Does it Better" Peri and Len Brum We met her as Joe's wife Recollections of Marilyn  Vivacious, Beautiful,Warm, Caring and Intelligent. A delight to be with.    But the most lasting memory of all is the wondrous relationship that Marilyn and Joe had with each other. There was an obvious joy in living, exhibited by both.    Marilyn, you are missed by all Ed and Libby Berday We met through joe, one of the Bronx Boys Marilyn was a "special person"in our life. All who met her were taken with Hher ability to relate to others, and her capacity for fun and laughter. She was the one that was remembered in a crowd! She was bright, curious to learn and test new areas. She was compassionate withe an extraordinary memory; all of which made her a generous friend. She was always "upbeat". healthy or sick.    She had that unique ability to project a great deal of energy as she drew you into her world wirth her warmth and beautiful.inviting smile! We shared many joyous times together; weddings, births, birthdays and reunions. We even ended up getting married in the same year.    Marilyn wanted to live! We saw this in her willingness to continue fighting, enduring so much pain and disappointment, as she clung tenaciously to life.    We will miss you Marilyn. We will miss your sound, your color, your energy. But we will remember that you were our friend and feel fortunate. Libby &Ed Barbara Nussbaum One of my Dearest Friends.... There were so many things to love about Marilyn; it's hard to know where to begin. But what I remember most is "I am not a phone person," but Marilyn and I had so much to say to each other that we could sometimes be on the phone for 2 hours, and it seemed like 15 minutes.    We felt like soul-mates. She and I had thoughts and feelings that we felt no-one else had, or would ever understand. But when we expressed it to each other, we completely knew what the other person meant, and we couldn't believe how much we thought alike.    She was always so sincerely happy for you if you had good news, and always there for you if you had a problem.    I am so glad Joe Brodoff and Joe Nussbaum were boyhood friends, which gave me the opportunity to meet Marilyn so many years ago. It's rare to meet someone like her, and I feel lucky and blessed to have had her as my dear friend.    I will never forget her and she will always be in my heart.    All my love,  Barbara Joseph & Dorothy Shafran friends We knew Marilyn & Joe for about 35 yrs. I knew Marilyn when she worked for Chevette and Joe in the textile industry which we both made our living. My wife lived two blocks from her and my best friend lived in the same building as Marilyn on Park Place. We had a lot in common and enjoyed each others company when we met at many social get togethers during the year and continued for over 25 yrs. Marilyn was a beautiful person, intelligent, kind, and wonderful to be with. The thing I will always remember is the love she had and showed when she spoke to and about her Joe and the way her face lit up with a tremendous sparkle. Ruth Essenfeld We met through mutual friends When Marilyn learned that I had been diagnosed with lung cancer, she immediately called me and, with the warmth that was so characteristic of her, offered consolation and advice. This, despite the fact that we were not close friends having seen each other on only a few occasions. I was so impressed with her making that phone call, trying to help someone she barely knew. Unfortunately, our relationship was much too short, but long enough for me to realize how caring and giving a person Marilyn was. shirl & syd brody we were friends I know Joe for 53 years having worked with him at JPStevens& United Elastic. I was with Joe on his sales call to Chevette Lingerie the day he met Marilyn. It was love at first sight. I remember many a time walking down Madison Ave. with Joe when he would stop and whistle;the window on the 5th floor would fly open and there was Marilyn smiling and waving happily.    After they were married, and Marilyn became pregnant, we brought her a gift: Dr, Spock's Baby Care, which she loved and put to good use for Ilene, Bruce, and Steven. Then we would see Marilyn & Joe socially and at business functions thru the years. When we were with Marilyn we saw a pretty, very bright gal, with a fun twinkle in her eyes.She had a way of talking and a way of smiling; you knew that she was happy, you knew that she was enjoying life. It was a delight to be in her company.    When the cancer hit her from time to time, Marilyn had the same "up" attitude; you couldn"t tell what she was going through; she didn't dwell on her illness, but was concerned for others; she was seemingly indestructible.    This website of sharing our thoughts with so many others as well as the photographs--the whole thing--is a wonderful, heartwarming tribute to a great lady. Gregory Newell I Worked With Joe In 1988, I was a young college graduate ready to tackle my first job. Early on, I met Joe. For the next 7 years, I had the good fortune to meet and become friends with Marilyn. I learned about the spirit of life through Marilyn and Joe. They taught me the importance of family and friends, and to always be honest with yourself and those in your life. I was a young southern kid that was taken under the wings of Marilyn and Joe, and gained experiences with these 2 wonderful people that I still cherish today. I am blessed! Joe Rankin We were neighbors Marilyn was always a cheerful and friendly neighbor, but one memory above all sticks in my mind.    On Thanksgiving Day several years ago, Marilyn knocked on my door to unexpectedly deliver some homemade stuffed cabbage she wanted my apartmentmate Ben and I to enjoy with our meal.     I thanked her for thinking of us and told her that her gesture was much appreciated because due to Ben's serious illness we were unable to shop for and prepare a traditional Thanksgiving meal.    A few minutes later Marilyn knocked on my door again, this time bringing enough of the food she cooked for her family to enable Ben and I to enjoy a delicious and plentiful holiday dinner.    I'll never forget Marilyn's kind gesture...the memory of her generous spirit still warms my heart.....     Stanley Brodoff She was my sister in law She was a beautiful, intelligent girl with a great sense of humor. She was a good wife and mother and her family adored her.I respected her various abilities, especially the roles she played in the Guilini administration. There seemed to be no end to all she could accomplish. It was a great pity that fate took her away from us. I and my family will miss her more than I can say. Esther and Howard Stern thru Joe, long-time friend of Howie from the Bronx Joe, when men who were boyhood friends remain friends throughout adulthood, Esther says that it is usually the wives who are responsible. Our gang of guys fortunately married gals who, without exception, have kept us together as "one happy gang" proving the adage "there's nothing like old-time friends". Whenever we meet the camaraderie is something special because of the bond we all have formed thanks to the gals.     Marilyn's interest in the welfare of others and her upbeat attitude always made her the "life of the party". While the men would play poker, the ladies went out to dinner. Esther remembers how Marilyn was so eager to have fun, try new or unusual menu choices and live life to the fullest. Her warmth and concern was so especially strong and pervasive that her presence is still felt whenever our group gets together. So sorely missed, we still look forward to meeting and sharing happy memories.     Marilyn's "trademark" was her wide and glowing smile. She loved to laugh and it was contagious --- it made everyone feel good. Esther says that, when she sees a ray of sunshine breaking through the clouds, she often thinks of Marilyn. It's as if Marilyn is looking down on her family and friends telling them to be brave and carry on. Joe, we thank you for bringing Marilyn into our lives. She taught us the true meaning of courage. We have framed the "miraculous" drawing you gave us along with the source photo of Marilyn raising her arms to the sun while standing on the beach. It looks down on us in our den, and serves as an inspiration to us.    Congratulations to the Brodoff family on a magnificent website. It portrays the greatness of "The Woman" and reflects the full life that she lived with an extremely positive attitude. She set an example for us, and we've all benefited from hearing her expressions of compassion and concern towards others. Her interest made us feel that we were important to her, and that made her an important part of our lives. She was a godsend.     Steven Brodoff I am her son... Today is August 18th...   Happy Birthday Mom! You are in my thoughts today (and everyday) and I miss you very much...    Love you...  Ilene Harrison Marilyn's daughter Just wanted to thank those who have taken the time to share their thoughts and memories about my mom. It has meant so much to relive some of the moments and to learn new things that we would never have known.    Please continue to add things as you think of them...you'd be suprised how a simple sentence can have such an impact.    Only after the fact do you realize how much more there was to know about a person, or the different things you never asked, even when you were close and shared alot.    Too much time could never pass to make an entry "too late" to enter.  No matter when, you can be sure it will brighten our day, just like mom's beautiful, big smile did.    Ilene  Pearl and Irving Sloane Friend and relative Everyone who visited us at Tahiti Cove, where we spent our winters, directly on the Intracoastal Waterway in Florida, remarked on the beauty of our location. But Marilyn was ecstatic! She gazed entranced as the sun set on the water, the boats, and the birds. We now live eleven stories above that scene and include the vastness of the ocean and the sky in our view. I think of Marilyn often when I look through our picture windows. How she would have appreciated these sights! I like to think that the intense pleasure Marilyn found--and engendered-- in her too-brief life constituted more joy and deeper experience than other people derive from a longer but less passionate life. Douglas Brodoff She was my Aunt I will always remember how Marylyn looked me up in LA at a time that it was greatly appreciated. Joe tells me it was she who insisted on finding me. We had a wonderful dinner Uncle Joe and Aunt Marilyn, Uncle Murray and Aunt Phylis and I. I also remember the laughter in my Uncle Joe and Aunt Marilyn's family when I was a kid. I remember the laughter and I remember Ilene singing. Ken and Alyce Brodoff Our warm, loving and wonderful Aunt When we think of Aunt Marilyn, we think of everything warm, cheerful, bright, intelligent and loving. Her incredible laugh, positive attitude and love of life are a shining example for us all. She was a woman of extraodrinary character and insight with a heart of gold who always made the time we spent together a memorable and lovely experience. Her priorities were always perfectly in order, and spending time with her in person and on the telephone were some of the most cherished times of our lives.    Aunt Marilyn had many interests and knew the concept of steady, hard work. Her passion for humanity and unselfishness have left this world an incredibly much better place. For those of us fortunate enough to be in her family, the reward is ten-fold.    Uncle Joe is a soul of equal proportion.    To have known her is to know what our potential as individuals is. Her bravery was unsurpassed, but Aunt Marilyn always knew how precious every moment was even before she became ill.     This is how we will always remember her.  Ruby Rodriguez Heard her story on the crossingover show I know that I did not know Marilyn, but I was very touched by her story shared on the Crossingover show. I was very touched on what a wonderful person she was said to be. She seemed to be a very happy and loving woman, who did not take life for-granted. That's the way life is meant to be spent. I believe that Marilyn's Place is going to be a very special place for others, and for her family to be able to share that is a very unselfish gift to give to others who are sick. I just wanted to tell all her family how lucky there are to have known someone like her. I'm sure she is looking down on you all and smiling and very proud for all you have done.  Viewer-Ruby Rodriguez in san antonio Ann From Crossingover This is the most beautiful website I have ever seen. The love you had for your mom and wife is evident in the pages. Thank you for sharing her life. mary baxter i knew soneone else-i have an idea for your web site! i think that along with this your thoughts and memories thing, you should have a place where people can write about loved ones that they have lost.this ight be a good idea because sometimes people can feel better when they alk to someone about something, dont you? thouh I am only 11 yrs old, I think this should be a good idea. I hope you take my idea under consideration.   thank you, sry about your loss  mary baxter Christie McDonald Crossing over segment Your memorial of your mother is breath taking. Reading your family history brought joy, laughter, and tears to my eyes. The love that your family has for one another is overwelming. If families today had half the love that your family has the world would be a better place. Your mom was a wonderful person and as long as you keep her memory alive and in your heart she'll be with you forever. Thank you for sharing your story. My condolences go out to all. Jennifer Taylor Crossing Over Show I think that this is a wonderful site. It is something that holds the memories that you have of the loved one you lost. When I was watching the Crossing Over episode that said all of you made this website in loving memory of Marilyn, and every time you see a new entry you get exited and full of joy I decided to make an entry, because you guys deserve it (to be happy and full of joy) for doing all of this for someone you love. God Bless  Jennifer Taylor Brenda J. Jenkins Crossing Over with John Edward I would like to thank the Brodoff family for sharing their story of love for their mom, wife, friend, cousin, aunt to many. Although I did not know Marilyn except through the Crossing Over show, I was deeply touched by the caring and love that her family has shown. I too, have lost many family members to cancer and know how hard it is to deal with such a horrible disease. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May her love always shine down upon you. God Bless you all!!! Jim M. Bonilla Crossing Over Show Hello, I am very sorry for your loss. I think when people die God sends them to a beautiful place where they are happy.    I kno Marilyn is watching over you, And she would be very happy. Jen Dale Saw a T.V. Program which featured the Family I have never met this lady but, I just viewed a program called Crossing Over with John Edwards and saw this amazing website that was set up in her honor. From what I haveviewed I can tell that Marilyn was an extrodinary woman as well as very loving and caring. I wish the family and friends of Marilyn the best in their life and commend you for all of the love and devotion you all have to her memory. I wish that I would have known her, for she has definately left an everlasting impression on everyone's lives!!! R J Matthis Crossing Over Segment To Marilyn's Family:  I didn't know your wonderful mother, but I know of your love for her thru the segment on Crossing Over. I am so sorry for your loss.... she seemed to be an outstanding lady. Your love for her is evident here on the website. Your stories of remembering her are such an inspiration. I know that in heaven, your mom is smiling down on you, and continueing to wrap her arms around you all. Be of good cheer, and thank you for sharing your story. Valerie Middleton Crossing Over show about memorials Thank you for sharing your mother with the rest of us in this way. I lost my dad to cancer on Jan 22 1999. There is so much that I didn't get to know about him and this web site gives others a chance to let you know things about your mom that you might not have known. Sharing and remembering our loved ones will keep them in our hearts forever. thank you so much. Cara Corcoran I saw your memorial message on Crossing Over Just to let you know that Marilyn's vibrant spirit reaches out across the miles. I saw your family on John Edward, and was moved to sit down at the computer just before you mentioned the website. Of course I had to come and visit! Marilyn inspires me, even though I never met her on this side. I don't need to tell you how lucky you are you are to have this lovely lady in your life. And bravo for this beautiful memorial that shares a little of her with so many, even those far far away (I live in Peace River, Alberta, Canada!)    With love and light,    Cara Andrea Terry learned through the website I would like to thank the Brodoff family for sharing Marilyn's memory. Although we can't bring her back to this earth, her memory and legacy is touching lives all over the country via this website and the show. Marilyn's grace will continue on through the memories in your hearts and the valuable life lessons others have learned from reading this beautiful and boundless story. Sheree Fleming Saw her on John Edwards Just wanted you to know how touched I was by her story on John Edwards. I couldn't help but notice what a beautiful woman she was, especially the huge smile she wore in every one of her pictures. She looks like an angel. My heart goes out to the family for their loss. You must be very proud of Marilyn's place. Thank you for caring about others in your time of grief. The world is a better place because of people like you. Like they say "The Apple Doesn't Fall Far From The Tree". She obviously did an excellent job during her time here on earth. Marilyn is still alive in all of you. Keep smiling for her!! from Newfoundland, Canada John Edwards Show This site is not only a wonderful tribute to your mother, but to your entire family. Thank you for sharing your memories. I did not know your mother, but her beautiful smile will remain with me for a long time. My thoughts & prayers are with you all. Lindell Smith From Crossingover I never knew Marilyn but your story touched me very deeply. We have all lost loved ones in our life and it was very touching to me to see the memorial you have set up in Marilyn's name to help those who truely need it. What a wonderful family you are. I'm sure Marilyn is very pleased with the work you are doing in her honor. I truely beleive that our loved ones remain with us after they pass and I try to live each day to make them proud of me. Marilyn's smile will be one I will forever remember. You can't imagine how you have touched so many lives. I am from British Columbia Canada. Please keep up the wonderful work you are doing and may God bless you all. Mary Slade from Guelph, Ontario, Canada from Crossing over Show with John Edwards Just remember Marilyn is always with you, just though a single thought! How proud she must be of her family! P.M. Sklove From the John Edward Show What a wonderful tribute! This is a beautiful way to remember your mother and wife. I wish our family knew how to create a site like this. Christopher M. Ragazzo Bruce and I are the best of friends Most of you reading this have never met me. My name is Chris.    In college, I was lucky enough to become fast friends with a young Bruce Brodoff, a hyper-kinetic ball of energy and information whose vast stores of knowledge on subjects ranging from Czarist Russia to the New York City Sewer system fascinated me. What I didn't know then, is that my friendship with Bruce was merely a bridge to the true storehouse of information, and so much more, Marilyn Brodoff.    Over the years, Bruce would often find that Marilyn would be on the phone for over an hour before handing the phone over to him, explaining that Chris was on the phone. Bruce would take the phone from his Mom, rolling his eyes, knowing that my friendship with his mother was as important as our own. How did that come to be, I recently asked myself? I had only met Marilyn in person a handful of times, and yet, in those few meetings, I felt a connection in the deepest of places. Sitting at her dining room table, in the apartment that she raised her three children in, we would discuss everything from pop culture to family recipes. I always loved the hallway filled with photos of Bruce's Bah Mitvah and other rites of passage.    Her laugh was a gift to my ears. Her sheer delight and appreciation for a well-told story was evident, but her ability to tell a story from her vast experiences was her real gift, and I can only sum it up with one word: passion. She had passion for people, for places, for food, for causes, in short...for life. I'm a person who is drawn to the flame, and if ever there was a flame, it was Marilyn Brodoff.    I called her Mrs. Brodoff for at least five years, due to my upbringing, but as I got older, I started to call her Marilyn. From time to time, I would check in with Marilyn. I honestly don't think we ever spent less than an hour talking. We just couldn't. The two of us would swap stories, one on top of the other.    When Bruce informed me that Marilyn's tests had not been positive, I gave pause. I live in California, with my wife and two daughters, out of sight, out of mind. Lord knows I wouldn't know what to say to her. Then, I thought of my sweet friend, (who twice made the effort to visit my young family on her short stays in Los Angeles with Joe, even when Bruce no longer lived here)...I thought of her contagious laugh, her lights of Broadway smile...and I picked up the phone and called my dear friend.    For the next two hours we talked about everything, from the dire to the mundane, we talked, we laughed and most of all, we connected. I will never forget the time we spent that day. There were no secrets. I told her of my initial reaction to the news of her illness and my concious decision not to run away, and she told me she always appreciated my "in your face honesty", as I did hers.    After that day, I would always know that our friendship was secure. Not a week goes by when I don't think of her. She loved her children and spoke openly of that love with me.     My friendship with Bruce is a most treasured one. Being able to say that I knew his mother, Marilyn, only strengthens my bonds with Bruce and the Brodoff's. I still know their phone number by heart. That should tell you something.     To enter the Brodoff home, was to enter a home of love. I consider myself lucky to have been invited in, to witness firsthand, the inner workings of a strong and loving family. Thank you Marilyn and Joe for always treating me like a member of your family. Marion and I can only hope that our children can know the love and security that you both provided for your children.    Finally, I have to say, that Marilyn always offered me her true-blue and undying support, as I struggled to build my writing and directing career. Like my own mother, she just wanted me to be happy and to fufill my dreams. She always told me to hang in there, never doubt my talent, and everything would turn out right.    As my first novel goes out to publisher's this week, and having just sold my first television show, I proudly say to you Mrs.B., "You were right, Marilyn! Everything did turn out right, just like you said!"    This website is a labor of love by a loving ,devoted and multi-talented son. You did good, Bebo! Momma would be proud.    Love to all,  Chris  Bruce Brodoff I am her son   My family and I would like to thank all of the wonderful "Crossing Over" viewers who took the time to write us such beautiful, heartfelt messages.     It was very exciting and touching to read all of your thoughts and sentiments. We are very happy that our story touched so many people across the U.S.A. and Canada, and we gained much comfort and strength from your good wishes.     May all of you enjoy long, healthy and happy lives....... Elaine Smiley Burdick sister Fran's friend I was a close friend of Marilyn's sister, Fran Scholnick Feinberg. We go back to JHS 210 days when Marilyn, Fran and I lived on St John's Place in Brooklyn. Fran would ring my doorbell on the way to school every morning and I listened to the most recent Marilyn and mother Millie happenings. Boyfriend Joe was still in Marilyn's future. As the years went by, and Fran became an aunt, she often talked about Ilene, her great love. Fran was married in 1967 and had two children. When she got sick, Marilyn was there for her. Fran had a key to my apt on 71st St. in NY and after treatment at the hospital a few blocks away, she would go there to rest. Marilyn would meet her there to care for her .When Fran passed away in 1982, Marilyn and I often called each other and shared stories and memories. Our conversations continued for 20 years and she kept me up to date on Joe, the children (both hers and Fran's),the grandchildren, her job, and -her health.She was so helpful and supportive when I had a medical problem. I loved Marilyn's personality, warmth and energy and I always enjoyed our talks. Marilyn's Place and this website are two wonderful ways for all of us to keep our memories alive.          ) Diane Klimczak - Chicago, IL Crossing Over The first time Joe was on Crossing Over and connected with Marilyn, I cried..I could see the love and devotion Joe had to her. I couldn't help but to think how truly blessed they both were to have had the time together that they did.    The second time Joe was on Crossing Over, again I just cried and thought how they were such a fantasic example of the meaning of "love".    I had to view this website and how very glad I am that I did. What a beautiful dedication to such a wonderful spirit.    I felt like Joe and Marilyn had something so very special and the photos and stories just showed how the love we share with others lives on even after we have left this earth.     Thank you for sharing Marilyn with so many on this website and on Crossing Over.     Thank you Marilyn for being the beautiful spirit that you were on this earth and continue to be on the otherside! Robin L Wolf Crossing Over your story touched me very deeply. I lost my mother on June 12,2002 (from stomach cancer) which we had no idea she had. My mother had asthma and we thought she was having an asthma attack so my father took her to the hospital and the doctors said her ovaries were 3x's bigger than they were suppose to be and schedule her for a Hysterectomy. She had her surgery done on my 41st birthday (not a birthday present I had wanted) but during the surgery the doctors found cancer in her stomach She passed 13 days later at the young age of 61. My parents were getting ready to celebrate their 43rd wedding anniversary on June 24. My mother & I were very close and it's been really hard. I want to thank you for sharing Marilyn (your mother) with so many on this website and on Crossing Over.   God Bless   Robin  email- robin1961@kupl.every1.net Debbi Sloane cousins 'through the heart' Marilyn often spoke of the Sloanes as if we were part of the Brodoff clan, and I have never considered myself, Robert and the girls, anything but close family. When she and Joe came to Florida they always made the effort to spend some time with us. I miss sharing those garlic pizzas with them!  I will miss that burst of energy that seemed to surround Marilyn, and followed her wherever she went. Marilyn was one of the most positive people I have ever known. She is my role model for living life to its' fullest potential. I will never forget her smile. She was truly beautiful inside and out, and will not be forgotten. Penny Crossing Over with John Edwards I was so drawn to Joe's story about his wife that I had to find the web-site and share in all the wonderful memories of her life. I couldn't stop reading all about her and wondered why I was so intrigued. I found the connection...she was born on August 18th which is my grandma's birthday. I loved my grandma very very much and miss her as much as I feel you miss Marilyn. You have honored her in such a special way and I am sure she is enjoying Marilyn's Place and this web-site as much as all of us. John Edward's show has given me such a sense of peace to know our loved ones never really leave us. Susan and Larry Cousins The other day Larry was talking about nice people. People who are so well liked by everyone, people who are so loved and everyone wants to be around, people about whom never a bad word is said. Then he said,"Marilyn Brodoff and my mother were like that". Marilyn always made us feel good and everyone would gravitate to her. We were treated to Joe and Marilyn's wonderful hospitality in their country home. I remember enjoying Chinese food in the "treehouse" porch and laughing all night long. Everyone wanted to be around Marilyn because she was such a wonderful and joyful person. Chelsea - Viewer of the John Edward's Show Her wonderful appearances on John Edwards     I so enjoyed the first two times I saw Joe on Crossing Over and saw him again yesterday. I was just wondering how he is doing and if he is coping okay. He seems like such a special guy but as he was wandering around his back yard he seemed a little lost. I hope knowing Marilyn is watching him...as indicated on Crossing Over that he knows she's just a memory away. Bette Sloane Cousin The warmest smile I have ever seen belonged to Marilyn Brodoff. To say that Marilyn's smile could light up a room is an understatement; she was the light in the room. I have the fondest memories of playing the word game, Dictionary, with Ilene, Barbara and Marilyn in the Poconos (and can even remember Marilyn's answers! Missal- to miss a sale at Bloomingdales). She always made me feel like she loved me like a grand-daughter; Barbara and Michelle are really lucky to have had such a wonderful grandmother, just as I am lucky to have known her. I think of Marilyn often, but really missed her during this past Chanukah. Our annual family Chanukah parties are one of my favorite events of the year! I've realized that it is because of the people I have the good fortune to spend it with. I hope Marilyn enjoyed my company as much as I treasured hers. I loved her dearly and miss her very much. Mary Perry Smith Thru Joe, we both worked @ JP Stevens My chance to know Marilyn was thru Joe and our working for JPStevens and United Elastic. My job in sales transfered me to California it was while there that Joe and Marilyn came for a visit. One of their sons was in Palm Springs I believe at the time. We had the chance to have dinner and get to know each other. She was a very loving lady and we had a great evening. The thing I remember most is the love in Joe's eyes when he looked at Marilyn. The love between the two was so strong you could not help but notice. May God continue to watch over her loving family and bless you for all the good work you're doing. Spencer Garrett Friend I was reading through the site today 11.24.03, because I was thinking of Mariyln. Chris Ragazzo's words are so true about her. She was someone who was one of a kind, and she truly did appreciate "in your face honesty."     My best to the family. Even though I do not call, you are always in my thoughts.    Spencer  Marilyn Parker First Cousin to Marilyn on her Dad's Side This evening my husband Barry and I had dinner with Joe Brodoff. Joe showed us the two segments of "Crossing Over" that we had missed, and it was like having Marilyn back with us. I have many photos of Marilyn and her family over the years, but the televised photos were especially poignant and alive for me.  Thanksgiving is coming and I remember a Thanksgiving we spent together a few years ago. Eileen, Lou and the girls were traveling, so the rest of the Brodoffs (Marilyn, Joe, Steven and Bruce) were at our house for dinner. We had a great time and in addition to the traditional holiday turkey, Marilyn made her famous pot roast. It was wonderful, and I always meant to ask for her recipe. If anyone has it, please email it to me at marilynbrooklyn@yahoo.com. It would keep her memory even more alive for me.  Happy Thanksgiving to all the Brodoffs; Marilyn's spirit is there with you. Luz Espinosa We were friends from the Mayor's office     I would just like to let you know that there is not one week that passes with out the image of your mom or a memory of our time together popping into my head.     I would say now even more so, as it is the holiday season and all the finest restaurants in the City seem to be appearing on all sorts of TV programs. Funny enough, they are all the restaurants your mother had "friendships" with.     I call them "friendships" because to Marilyn they were not contacts, she would call them for a simple donation of dessert and not only would they call her back 100 times, she would be eating at the restaurant the next week with her husband.     I always admired her relationships with people and the way she made every single person she came in contact with feel special.  Edie Brown Partners in Crime at the Mayor's Office We both had a strong background in securing donations for various events and we were also the "seniors" of the group. What I can I say about Marilyn? -the most outstanding detail that I remember about Marilyn is that she was a fighter -- and she would encourage me to do the same when I wanted to give up. We stuck together and won many battles including a few WARS. It was fun!!    She was my friend and I miss her dearly. I love you, Marilyn, and thank you for being part of my life. Bruce Baruch Kivo from John DiPrima A very lovely, kind woman who just enjoyed   helping people.   Marilyn was such a positive and extremely kind person who will be missed by all who had the privilage of knowing her. Marcia Lee Friends from the Mayor's Office   Your mother meant a lot to me in the brief time I spent with her. Her enthusiasm, determined zest for life and motherly advice was infectious and warmed my heart.     I want you to know how proud she was of you and how much she loved you. She cherished you as a son and a friend.     There have been so many great stories of her children, husband, friends, restaurants, shows, vacations, etc. She touched anyone she came across.    I will always regret not spending more time with her. Forever her stories and laughter will remain in my heart.     I hope that you and your family will always be comforted that she was a happy person and lived life to the fullest (and looking gorgeous). We should all be so lucky.    Diana Wagner I'm friends with her son Bruce   The fondest memory I have of your Mom is when she visited me at The Plaza Hotel, when I was working at One CPS Restaurant.    She rushed over to me with that wonderful, glorious energy of hers and gave me a big hug (she was so happy I was working there).    Your Dad, well he just stood there and didn't say much, she had enough energy for everyone. She really made that day for me.     Bruce, your Mom was the ultimate in cool!     We were all lucky to have her touch our lives!   HARRIET HASKELL (BEFORE HASONOFSKY) WE GROW UP TOGETHER, AS KID'S ON PARK PLACE my name was harriet hasonofsky, I lived 2 house's from her cousin michael elmen. marilyn went to p.s. 144, and I went to p.s. 191, we grow up the same. I went with her to j.h.s.210, and jefferson.we are the same age. I was born july 4th 1939, in brooklyn women's hospital.we are a month apart.i spoke to her the last time, just a year before she died, then I called again and her huspand told me what hapened, so I called all the people that went to school with us, and also lived on park place all the way down to rochester ave, near 210. I still keep in touch with my school friend's, even the girl she was talking about bloosom fiserman, i'm the one who told blossom that she died, and I gave her marilyns home phone number.it's alot closer, when you grow up together.living on my block, it was like family, every body was close to each other.my granmother lived 2 house's from marilyn, right next to the temple.anyway MARILYN, GOD BLESS YOU, AND I'LL SEE YOU IN HEAVEN WHEN I DIE. LOVE HARRIET Ilene she is my mom Mom,    Lou and I and the girls just got back tonight from a trip to Steamboat Springs, Colorado with the Levy's. I thought of you much as the town and skiing vistas were beautiful and you would have loved this winter wonderland. Lou even quoted you saying your famous "I could live here" sentiment. When I picked up the local paper, I commented to Shelly that I always brought one home for you, as you loved to read all about the goings on in all different places. A scarf of yours was sprayed, with what is now a trademark perfume of yours, so that in some way you could be on the trip.    Barbara is busy now getting ready for her flight to Montreal in the morning. She will be meeting up with Christina, Laura and Sahrah for their first trip away together. As always, you would have been very excited to share this with her. Barbara's big 18th birthday is in two weeks and you would have been marveling and preparing for that I am sure. Between that, her driving, her upcoming high school graduation, her performances and getting accepted into college you would have been enjoying and celebrating it all with your little "jack in the box".    You also would have been so proud of Michelle. You would have been sharing all that is going on in her life and not believing that time was passing so quickly and that she just turned 14 and will be going into high school next year. You would have been cheering at her softball games as you had for her and barara in the past.    Having just been your wedding anniversary on the 28th of December and with New Year's Eve upon us your absence is so strongly felt (as it is every day) and we miss you greatly.    Though I never thought that I would "write" to someone who was not here anymore, I felt compelled due to missing you so much and reading the old and new memories from friends and family on the website.   No matter how close you are with someone there is so much more to know and to share. I am so happy that people are continuing to share their stories and memories....there can never be too many..... We were blessed to have you in our lives...there should have been so much more ahead for us...  we were cheated of future time and experiences...but we did have fun, love and devotion.....    Forever...  Ilene ilene i am her daughter   Once again wanted to thank those who have taken the time to share my mom's web site, as well as their thoughts and memories.  It means so much to us to hear old or new stories whether from her childhood or the recent past, from family or friends, or home or work.  If you think that we don't have an email address for you, we would love if you would add it when you wrote.   Wishing you all a Very Happy and Heathy 2004.    Ilene Christopher Ragazzo A Family Friend I think it is beautiful that you, Ilene, write letters to your mother. I was just checking back today, thinking of your Mom and eager to read what others have to say, and I smiled from ear to ear as you brought your Mom up to speed on the latest news. If I might borrow from your concept:    Dear Marilyn,    Just wanted to drop a line and let you know that you have been in my thoughts, especially as the Christmas season came and went. You might remember that you gave us a wooden Santa Claus on one of your first visits to Los Angeles. You might also remember that it was lost to the Great Ragazzo Garage Fire of 2001.     Well, I am happy to report that a package was delivered this year, and upon opening it, I was delighted to see a fresh and jolly Santa Claus. It was sent by noneother than your son, Bruce (aka Bebo). Knowing that we treasured our Marilyn-Claus, he made a special effort to replace it. Now, whenever someone asks about our Santa, I am happy to use it as an excuse to talk about you....and believe me, we do!    Know that for every season in my home, for the rest of my life, myself , my wife and children will unpack our Santa and smile as we think about you.    Happy New Year to you, my dear friend.  Love and kisses,    Chris    Linda Beuerle Crossing Over with John Edward I sure wish I had known Marilyn, however, reading every line written in this website makes me feel like I did know her. This is one giantic love story I will not soon forget.    You are all very lucky to have such a wonderful family. Anthony Marinelli Bruce   This website is really moving.     The Rabbi's eulogy and your mom's memories are so touching.     The story she tells is so involving...although I never met her, I find her observations very open and inviting.    I would have liked to have known her.  Ilene Harrison Marilyn's Daughter March 2, 2004    Today we were privileged to bring our friends and family together to share a much awaited event.    A newly designed room, called Marilyn's Place, and a beautiful plaque, inscribed with a replication of my mom's distinct signature, were dedicated today in her honor.    This welcoming space, at New York's Beth Israel Hospital, will be used by patients undergoing cancer treatments.   With its home-like atmosphere, it allows them a private place in which to rest during, or in between, their daily regimens.    Those that use "Marilyn's Place" can watch TV or a video, listen to music, read, borrow a book, write thoughts in a journal, paint with an art therapist, visit with company, have a refreshment, take a nap,or just relax quietly.    I know that my mom would be proud to have her name associated with a place that is dedicated to the helping of people during such a difficult time.    My family is certainly proud of my dad for working so hard to see this dream become a reality.    Though this project is complete,we are happy to note that the Marilyn Brodoff Memorial Fund will continue on. Our mission is to have a new project each year that will contribute to the comfort, support and healing of those with cancer.    For 2004 we are working to secure funding for the purchase of new reclining treatment loungers, for the chemotherapy suite, as well as portable DVD players. For more information you may click on 'Marilyn's Place' below.    Many of you reading this note knew my mother well. We thank you for your support and hope that you will continue to think of our cause when you wish to make an "in memoriam" or "in honor" donation.  For those that did not know my mom personally, I hope that this website has brought to life all that made her so special to us. We also hope that you will be inspired to support the goals of our fund.    Whether a few words or a story, each written memory touches us greatly.  We look forward to future entries.      With wishes for a cancer cure   in our lifetime,    Ilene    Carol Abenanti I am Ilene's friend I have known the Brodoffs since Ilene and I were in 6th grade together. I distinctly remember the first day I met her mother. It was Ilene's birthday party and Marilyn welcomed a large group of giggling girls into her home to celebrate. I was new to Ilene's circle of friends, but was made to feel quite at home. As the years passed, I spent many days just hanging out with Ilene and many nights sleeping over.     I remember being at their home the night of the black out in 1976. Ilene's parents had gone out that night - I think they were at Madison Square Garden for something. When they returned home, they found Ilene, Bruce, Steven and me sitting around the table eating all the ice cream from the freezer because it would have melted away if we didn't.     I remember Marilyn's contagious smile, kind heart, welcoming embrace, adventurous personality, and most of all her love for her family. I know she is greatly missed by all those who knew her and I am touched by the way her family and friends have chosen to honor her memory through this site and Marilyn's Place. Steven Brodoff She is my Mom! Today is Monday, March 21...I am in Brazil right now.... in Salvador, Bahia to be precise... I just logged on for a moment to see my mom´s face and to read the latest entries....     I also wanted to share something I experienced tonight while watching a movie here (alone) in the local shopping mall... I went to see ¨Something´s Got to Give¨ w/Jack Nicholson and Diane Keaton.... I don´t know why exactly, but I felt my mom´s presence so much tonight while watching this movie... she would have LOVED this movie! Maybe you would have had to have seen a movie with my mom to understand exactly what I mean. Often people are shy about laughing out loud in a movie theater, but definitely NOT my mom..... There was so many scenes in this film that I know she would have found extremely funny and while watching this movie I could actually HEAR her laughing out loud.... which only made me laugh outloud even more... really I could here her laughing like I often did when I went to the movies with her.... which was very nice. Truth be told though I would sometimes cringe from ¨embarrassment¨ and maybe even jokingly give her the elbow at times because she would be laughing so loud!! But nothing stopped her from laughing .. no matter where she was. Anyway go see the movie and think of my mom... maybe you´ll even hear her laugh like I did tonight. Esther & Howie Stern Friends of the Brodoff family Marilyn,    On March 2, 2004, we were privileged to be part of a large and loving group of family and friends who gathered together to share in the heartfelt dedication of a special room at Beth Israel Hospital in honor of a very special person. The light shining down from above that day was especially bright as you beemed with pleasure to observe this wonderful event. We were deeply moved to actually see the room which will be providing much needed comfort to patients and their families. It forever perpetuates your sincere consideration, concern & affection for your fellow human beings. One of the administrative nurses made a special point of telling us how appreciative she was to finally have this special, unique room available for her to meet in loving and peaceful comfort with troubled patients. The warm and glowing picture of you on the beach enhances the feeling of peace that the room provides. Through Joe and your children, your loving kindness will always continue to live on. We look forward to sharing in future additions in your honor at Beth Israel.    Love, Esther & Howie Chris Ragazzo A Family Friend I just had to share this. Over the weekend I created my first website to advertise a local Mac consultant business. This morning I decided to check and see if it would show up in a search engine, so I typed my name and this was the reslut:     Marilyn (Scholnick) Brodoff  ... for over an hour before handing the phone over to him, explaining that Chris was on the phone ... was thinking of Mariyln. Chris Ragazzo's words are so true about her ...   more hits from: http://www.marilynbrodoff.com/thoughts  -  79 KB     The way I look at it, Marilyn and I are forever connected in cyberspace. It's pretty random, if you consider that I simply typed my name and nothing else. Either way, it brought a smile to my face as I thought about Marilyn this morning. Howard Alan Krigsman My mother is Adele Krigsman This a wonderful tribute to Marilyn and brought many happy memories and tears. My warmest regards to all the family and friends of the Brodoffs. I am now living in Coral Springs Florida with my wife Bonnie and our daughter Amy. A special hello to Joe, Ilene, Bruce and Steven. I'm sorry we did not stay in contact, after my mother passed life was never the same. Thank you for all your kindness and for these for these special memorie. Love to you all. Howie. E-mail cscadet@gate.net. Mitzi Murphy John Edward show My father and aunt (today, may 31st would have been her 61st birthday) both died of cancer. It is nice to see someone taking a negative and making it into a postive.   Great website and I wish you all the best.   You have a beautiful family. NINAMOSHA WINSCOTT I DIDN'T, BUT,SHE HAS A GREAT FAMILY... I SEEN YOUR STORY ON THE JOHN EDWARDS CROSSING OVER. I AM TRUELY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I CHOOSE TO BELIEVE, THOSE THAT GO BEFORE US DO SO TO BE ABLE TO GET THINGS READY FOR US WHO WILL FOLLOW LATER. MY GRANDMOTHER (DOROTHY EVA HIEBER) WAS TAKEN FROM US ON FEB 6,2004.I, AS WELL AS THE REST OF MY FAMILY. HAVE BEEN HAVING A VERY HARD TIME DEALING WITH THE CIRCUMSTANCES SURROUNDING HER DEATH. I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR THE INSPIRATION YOU HAVE GIVEN TO ME AND SHOWING ME, AS WELL AS OTHERS. A GREAT WAY TO HONOR THOSE WHO HAVE CROSSED OVER. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I AM SURE MARILYN IS SO PROUD OF ALL OF YOU. GREAT JOB!!!!!! Pat Spellman John Edward Show I was struck by her photographs and the light that came through in almost every one. What a beautiful memorial you have created with this website and with Marilyn's Place. I am grateful to the John Edward Show for bringing this to the viewing world. Know that she is with you always.  Pat in Florida Sharyn Skolnik John Edward show I just have to tell you that I am sitting here reading about your mom and tears are rolling down my face. She must have been a beautiful person. I saw that her maiden name was the same as mine, except spelled different and I was curious about that. You did a beautiful job on this website and I am sure that your mom would be very proud of her family. I lost my husband three years ago after 30 years of marriage. Once again, you did a beautiful thing. electchester@yahoo.com shari rivera we were neighbors in seacrest building Iam very sorry to hear about your mom she was such a beautiful person, and always smiling , happy theres not one day that I use to see her walking by the building that she wasnt smiling always very happy, Heather N. B. John Edwards Show I saw your story on Crossing Over and was touched by it. I lost my grandmother to ovarian cancer on March 21st 2004 and 25 hours later, I lost my dog to cancer as well. It's good to hear that you are taking a negative experience and turning it positive. God bless. SANDY JOHN EDWARD SHOW IT SHOWS IN HER FAMILY WHAT A WONDERFUL WOMAN SHE WAS AND STILL IS...  I'M SURE SHE IS VERY PROUD OF ALL OF YOU...  I BELIEVE SHE IS STILL WITH YOU EVERY MINUTE OF THE DAY...  LOVE TO ALL OF YOU.............. Janis Crossing Over Thank you so much for sharing your intimate thoughts, feelings and special tribute to your mother on the John Edwards show. My family and I have been trying to create a similar website for my husband and I was thrilled to find such a shining example of how it could be done! Marilyn obviously has a terrific family and your love is evident in all you have said and created here. I wish you continued success in life and in Marilyn's Place!  Blessings to you from Chicago. Julie John Edwards Show May 31, 2004    I just happened to catch a small part of the Crossing Over show today and saw a segment about Marilyn and how your family took the time to create a special room at Beth Israel Hospital for people getting cancer treatments. This website was also mentioned and I just had to look it up. All I can say is that the love you have for her has touched me in a way incapable of being expressed in words. I only wish that I could have known her in life, too. I laughed when I read where her son had watched "Something's Gotta Give" and spoke of how he could see her watching it and laughing. I too, have seen that movie, and if she's anything like me, I know the parts that would have tickled her.   God Bless all of you for the work that you are doing to help cancer patients... and I too leave you with the hopes of a cure for cancer in our lifetime.... I lost my uncle May of 1995.  Julie in Tennessee Sandra Harris Crossing Over I just saw the show today and was drawn to your site. My beloved father also died of cancer, as did an uncle and a family friend... but 3 aunts have survived it! Thank you for honoring your mother's memory and the family spirit that gets so many of us through trying times. Good Luck with Marilyn's Place-- we need more places like that to help people retain their dignity and comfort through medical challenges.    God Bless!  Gary R. Beck Crossing Over with John Edward Although I never knew your dear Marilyn, I was filled with joy from her smile, big ruby red lips and white teeth. I could hear her sing with her spirit. Her husband is a clever, humorous, warm and a gentle soul. All of you are to be commended for remembering her with Marilyn's Place. Yes, she is above there smiling as you said, knowing her spirit is there as a helper in those hearts and minds in need. She was blessed to have you all, and vice versa! And now you know for sure thanks to John that she is all around and with you until you cross over into her spirit once again. May God bless each and every one of you.    Gary  San Francisco, CA. Irene Rodriguez Crossing over The first time Joe was on Crossing Over and connected with Marilyn, I could see the love and devotion Joe had to her. I couldn't help but to think how truly blessed they both were to have had the time together that they did.   I had to view this website and how very glad I am that I did. What a beautiful dedication to such a wonderful spirit.   I felt like Joe and Marilyn had something so very special and the photos and stories just showed how much love they had for one another   this memorial of your mother is breath taking. Reading your family history brought joy, laughter, and tears to my eyes. The love that your family has for one another is overwelming. Your mom was a beautiful person she'll be with you forever. Thank you for sharing your story.   mae kaplan '''ieds. I had met vMarilyn only twice which was insufficient time to know someone. However reading through all the thoughts and memories of friends and family, gives me a beautiful portrait of a most beautiful human being. Thanks Joe for suggesting I log on to the website Sherry L. Brown Crossing Over Although I never met Marilyn I can see the love that Joe and she shared. I record Crossing Over every day (3 of them) and several times I have seen Joe. I have watched the Joe and Mairlyn one several times. Tonight as I sit alone in the house I watched the show and they shared this website. I just had to leave the TV and get to this site right away. I've so enjoyed reading and seeing all of the family pictures again. What an incredible family and relationship she and Joe had. What you have shared and the memorials you have created will forever be appreciated. More folks than you'll ever know will benefit from what you have done.     Since I started watching Crossing Over I have a new found faith and belief in our life after we are done here on earth. Seems as though our journey is only begining.     Many many thanks to your family for sharing, and many thanks to Marilyn for touching my life and thousands of others.     Thank you Joe - you are an inspiration all by yourself. Marilyn was truly blessed to have had you in her life.     Blessings to all of you, and Marilyn please say "hello and send my love" to Francis and Jackie if you happen to see them. They are the world to me!    7/14/04 Lovingly, Sherry  lavandr@yahoo.com ilene I'm her daughter Mom,    I have felt your presence alot today.  I have also been thinking about all that is happening now and how much you would have loved to have experienced and shared it all with us.    One strong image is your pulling up in a taxi to the front of my home,in Hamden, CT, after your train ride from NY. You came to visit for a few days as I was overdue to give birth.  We busied ourselves for a few days and then we had the blessed event: the birth of Barbara, your "jack in the box". You were there to witness her birth and the glow on your face is forever etched in my mind when Dr. Holly said "here grandma" as he put her in your arms.    A few years later, Michelle was born.  You were away in Connecticut for the weekend and I remember calling you and dad so that I could "ask" you if you were ready for another little granddaughter. There were screams of joy upon hearing about our new blessing and within no time you packed up, came home, picked up Bruce and Steven in Brooklyn and arrived in New Jersey to meet your new granddaugher.     Now we fast forward, and Barbara is  off to college in less than 4 weeks   & your other favorite granddaughter,  Michelle, is going into high school.      How we talk about how much you would have enjoyed and beamed at each milestone, accomplishment, and day spent together.    We miss you..... and continue to feel your presence each and every day.  You will always be an integral part of our being, a source of inspiration and our guiding angel.    Steven Brodoff I am her son AUGUST 18, 2004..... MOM WOULD HAVE TURNED 65 THIS WEEK!! I IMAGINE IF SHE WERE HERE SHE WOULD HAVE ENJOYED CALLING HER KIDS TO ASK, "SO.. HOW DOES IT FEEL TO HAVE A MOTHER WHO IS COLLECTING SOCIAL SECURITY???" UNDOUBTEDLY,SHE WOULD HAVE TAKEN THIS MILESTONE BIRTHDAY IN GOOD HUMOR. HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM... WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU!! Ilene I am her daugher It's 3am and I hear you saying, "Ilene, get some sleep", but we just got home one hour ago from North Carolina.    Well, your little "jack in the box" is now a college student!!    We know how much you would have loved the school, North Carolina (we heard you saying, "I could live here")and being part of this momentous time.    For sure you are with her in heart and soul and we know you are watching over her.    By the way, she moved into her dorm on your 65th birthday and a butterfly flew right passed me just as we first opened the door to the building!    We all miss you so very much. Luke Clifford Crossing over.(tv show) on living tv To the family, you have my greatest sympathy and condolances. It must be very hard to lose a mum. I think by opening Luke Clifford Crossing over im very sorry but I pressed enter before I had finished. I think it is wonderful that you have opened the Marilyn room. Its a very good idea as you are worshipping her and others can go to there room for a calm and quiet atmosphere. Good luck in the future to all of you. Again sorry for not finishing the message above^ God bless you all.x. Debra Baker saw crossing over programme here in England Hello, I have just watched Crossing over here in England where I live. I remembered the name of this website, and I was touched by your story. My mum died in 1995 of cancer she was 62, she was beautiful as well. I think Marilyn was very beautiful, and looked like a lot of fun! She reminds me a lot of my mum actually! I wanted to leave a message here to let you know that even in another country Marilyn has touched other peoples hearts. Matthew Coleman saw crossing over in England Hi, just a quick note to say that from reading your website,your mum sounds like a amazing person.The photo section I thought was a lovely memorial to your mum she was certaintly very beautiful.Well done for creating this tribute. Betty Twycross Crossing Over I would like to say how after watch John I feel I also had to say a few words on your site, your Wife, Mother, Grandmother, was an exceptional Lady as looking at her pictures in life she just shone and I think it would have been a privalage to have known her. This site will now be one of my favorites as it does touch my heart so Love and God Bless you all.Betty Twycross.(SCOTLAND) Kim Metcalfe Crossing Over Thank you for sharing with us the lovely/loving memories of your Mum,wife,grandmother and friend.  I was watching Crossing Over today (Oct.13th)here in England and her smiling face hit my tv screen and lit up my living room. Marilyn would be so proud of all of you for keeping her memory alive.  Her self portrait painting at Cape Cod pretty much tells me the kind of person she was...a people person, bright, cheery, loving, caring to describe her in only a few words..   Best wishes are sent to all who knew and loved her. Ilene i am her daughter To all who write:    You can only begin to imagine the emotion and joy that comes over me when I read a new note.  It touches my heart that my mom still has the ability to connect with so many people and bring a smile to their face..  Nothing would have pleased her more.    Being able to communicate with people from all over the world is certainly exciting for us and would have thrilled my mom even more.    Through the caring and generosity of so many of you, Marilyn's Place is able to bring daily comfort to those undergoing cancer treatments. In a very home-like environment, they are able to rest, read, watch movies, listen to music, have private time for themselves or with family. During treatments they have access to phones, portable DVD players and movies. Upcoming are special reclining chairs for treatment comfort and the addition of two computers. These computers will allow the patients the opportunity to connect with loved ones and to conduct daily business, supporting their need to keep control over as much of their normal routine as possible.. Not only is it important for them to have a feeling of control, but it will help them to avoid falling behind in their obligations, which would obviously lead to additional unnecessary stress.    Our goal is to expand these rooms and  programs throughout the Continuum Health Care System allowing us the   privilege of supporting all of those who are so bravely facing this difficult time in order to look forward to a bright, happy and healthy future.    If you would like to learn more about how to support the efforts of Marilyn's Place, please see the special section devoted to this room and fund on the main page at www.marilynbrodoff.com     Thank you again for sharing with us.    May the lives and memories of your   loved ones be for many blessings.    Warmly,  Ilene Sharon Kearns Crossing over Just wanted to wish you all the best with Marilyn's place,what a wonderfull idea,I'm sure many people will enjoy it.I lost my mother to cancer also.God bless and good luck from Ireland. Shelley-Ann Naylor Crossing over in england 13.10.04 I felt compelled to write after watching "Crossing over" today and remembering the website address. I must say you are a truely great and loving family I was moved by your comments and love which has bonded you all. What a lovely idea to start "marilyns place" I hope it brings much happiness to those who use it and that it continues to grow in size over the years.  Thank you for sharing this story and I wish you all the best for the future.    Shelley-ann martina mc ilkenny Through crosing over i really think what you have done for marilyn is couragous and very brave. I have lost members of mu family so I can understand the pain breavment can bring. thank you for giving us this to reflect on our own lives. colin mcintosh crossing over edinburgh watching tv the other day, your big red lips filled the screen and my heart. I hope I never have to miss someone as sore as your family misses you. maybe someday we'll all be lucky enough to meet you and if your not sure its me, i'll be the one who remembered the new lip tatoo lipstick, for a true lady. xx Rosalyn Eisner first cousin on fathers side Last week was our 50th wedding anniversary and there was so much talk that day about my cousin Marilyn. She was staying with us all in our Monticello home when I was first introduced to my husband. She was the only cousin at my wedding, since it was a rather small affair. She was my maid- of -honor and have the video of her dancing with me at my wedding. She certainly was a very high spitited girl, and her spirit will always live on. Darrow Terry Vineberg I grew up with Ilene First I want to say what a beautiful gesture this website is. I am touched at how many people felt so strongly about Marilyn (I always called her Mrs. Brodoff, though)and that her children and husband wanted to honor her in such a way. It makes you wonder if you will be remembered and adored that same way - as only a special angel would be.  I told Ilene recently, that I remember her mother always created great games for us to play at Ilene's birthday parties. The one that I remember most was her "memory board" where she would attach several household items, show it to us for a little time and then put it away and ask each of us to remember what was on it. The one who remembered the most items would win a prize. But the coolest thing about Mrs. Brodoff was she would always have a "booby" prize for the one who remembered the least. I liked to win that one because then I knew I was guaranteed a prize every time! (Sorry Mrs. Brodoff - I cheated!!!)  I also remember her fascination for entertainers, most especially Barbara Streisand and how Ilene would sing like her in her room.  Sorry Ilene, but remember the big furry hat she made you where to school in the winter?!?  I thought your mother was warm and caring and fun to be in your house with.  A big "Yasher Koach" to you and your family for creating Marilyn's Place and for wanting to share your mother with everyone. She sure did a good job raising you all.   with love ilene my mom Well, today is Michelle's 15th birthday.  We looked up into the crisp clear sky and thought of you and know that you are watching over us with love. Rosalie Cohen DeVito We were classmates -- Thomas Jefferson High School '57   I knew your mom and enjoyed her friendship.     She was a sweet young girl and always had a smile and "hi" for me.     We weren't "best friends" but I have fond memories of our school years together.  ilene she's my mom December 28, 2004    This is a special date, as it represents the day, that you and dad married 46 years ago.  Yours was a wonderful union of love,enjoyment,family, friends and incredible teamwork.  Though luckily blessings were abundant, at times there were life's trials too, which you weathered with grace,strength,humor and faith; always together as a well oiled unit.    None of this was ever lost on your children, who you modeled life's living for, in the most beautiful of ways.    As a part of you, we carry around your love, spirit, life and essence each and every day. Esther and Howard friends Joe, on this bright and shiny first day of the New Year 2005, our thoughts of Marilyn are with us as always. We felt that your recent message wishing our family health and happiness for the upcoming year was also being echoed by Marilyn from above. We continue to feel the warmth and consideration that you shared between yourselves and towards others. Marilyn's presence was genuinely felt at the Berday's recent house warming gathering of the "Bronx Gang". She was there! Our memories of Marilyn's strength, courage and high spirits are again proving helpful to our family, especially now as the past year has ended on a downward note for us. We will lean upon these thoughts to help shape a positive attitude; to us and to so many others, she continues to make a difference. Love and best wishes to the entire "Brodoff clan". Barbara Marowitz Trontz jr.h.s.210, jefferson & the old neighborhood We did not hang out together but always said hello when we saw each other. She always had a smile & was very friendly. Years later we met again in the drug store she was working in. We talked & found out we lived in the same neighborhood & she told me all about her children & of course I told her I had a girl, Debbie & son Howie. When ever we met in the store or in Silver star we always talked about our children. She was a warm person & I felt terrible when I found out about her passing. My birthday is Aug.9,1939 & my husband is on Aug.18,1938. I think this web site is great, a wonderful memory of Marilyn. Pamela Hunt I didn't but wish I had... Never mind being proud of your mom...I'm sure she is looking down and feeling extremely proud of you all. What a wonderfully warm and loving family she was part of. I think that creating this site in her memory was a terrific idea. She sounds like one in a million. I'm sure her love is still keeping you all warm...take care of each other. Bob Hall Through her son Bruce Your Mom sounds like a WONDERFUL person as the testaments from friends attest to.    I am very sorry she left you so soon, but she left you and your family very pleasant and meaningful memories.    After I read the Rabbi's words, I can honestly say, tears came to my eyes.    I wish I had known her, maybe in my heart I do.    Thank you so much for the memories and allowing me into your life with your lovely Mother, Wife, and Lady.    (I worked at the Nemerson Hotel in the Catskill Mountains around the time the Brodoff family spent their summers there, but I did not know them personally.)    Ira Krigsman Adele Krigsman's eldest son My mom & Marilyn were very good friends. My aunt Bernice told me about this website today & I wanted to pay my respects. My uncle said he still sees your dad at Pathmark from time to time. I live in upstate NY now with my wife, Kyle & our three children. I've been telling my family about the "old days" at the bungalow colonies and how much fun we had. My thoughts & prayers are with you all and hope you're all doing well. If you ever get a minute, drop me a line at kylesnuthouse@hotmail.com  I'm sorry we loss touch throughout the years, but back then my mom was the glue that held everything together. It all seemed to slip away once she was gone. Ilene my mom   Well mom...it is a few days past my birthday..one of the big ones...  number 45!  Hard to believe...but even harder to believe is that you were not with us to celebrate. You were a most special person and mom. I hope in life that you truly felt that love and admiration from me. I am confident that you did, as I feel we shared a special mother/daughter bond.  Today we celebrated Ellen's son, Alan's, second birthday. His birthdate is the day before mine, March 29th.  He turned two and is just adorable.  I know how much you would have enjoyed the celebration, and how much your face would have lit up watching all the adorable toddlers play and "talk" at his party.  Thinking of you always,  Your devoted daugher,  Ilene Sharon McDonald I did not know Marilyn I just watched the last few minutes of the segment on the John Edwards program about Marilyn. I felt compelled to communicate these words, all the way from Australia, so that you know that our hearts are with Marilyn and her memory from all over the world. xoxox Sharon Jenny from Sydney Australia Crossing Over I watched Crossing Over today, 22 April 2005, and immediately visited this website and tribute to a family's Wife, Mother, Grandmother and Friend.     It has inspired me to put memories to paper for my children who never met their grandmother (and my Mum) who died of cancer in 1973.     What you have created is absolutely wonderful and as a wife and mother I can't begin to imagine how proud Marilyn must be of you all. You have given her the greatest gift imaginable - a living celebration of her life. Thank you for sharing with us.    Best wishes from Down Under,  jenny_fletcher@hotmail.com Kimberley, Sydney Australia Crossing Over What a great memorial to your mum, she must have been very loved. How wonderful to have "Marilyn's Place" for those in the hospital, a living tribute. Ilene She's my mom Hi Mom, May 8,2005    Though I never thought I would be the kind of person that would write a letter to someone who is not here with us anymore, I feel it comforting to do so to you. It makes me feel like I am connecting to you through the airwaves to the beautiful place that a beautiful person like you would be.  This is our third Mothers' Day without you with us...we miss you each day more than words can say.  Though usually together with all the family on this day, this is the first year that I was not. Lou and I drove down to North Carolina for a weekend getaway in Pinehurst, NC before picking up Barbara at college on Tuesday. Michelle couldn't miss that much school and softball so she wasn't able to come with us. Dad slept over Sunday night helping to make our getaway possible.  I know if you were here, you would have encouraged Lou and I to have a relaxing getaway together, though it was Mother's Day weekend. We were lucky enough not to need a holiday to get together, to celebrate in your being a wonderful loving mother to me, nor my being a mother.  You were thought of all day, in all the little things that we did and saw, knowing how much you would have loved the area and that kind of trip..Many times I heard you saying, "I could live here!" When we listened to Shirley Bassie and Carol King, during our drive,I remembered the fun we had singing together and your beautiful voice.  Visions of your arrival in Hamden, Ct  in mid January 1986 (to keep me company while I waited for Barbara to arrive)popped in my head, as we arrived at her school. It was hard to believe that she had just completed her 1st year of college.  Time does fly, of that we have no control. Luckily we do have control  over remembering the special love of a parent and the wonderful memories coming from that warmth and devotion. That we can keep alive and close to our hearts forever...and that we will.  We honor you today and everyday.    Love,   "I"   Helene Through Bruce I wish I had known your Mother. I am so touched by everyone's memories of her. What a wonderful way to cherish them! I wish you every success with what we discussed. It would truly be "god's work."    Thank you for sharing this with me. mae wolf kaplan Very briefly........ I've gotten to know about Marilyn just  by listening to Joe.    What I have learned is that she was a most  exceptional woman who was cherished by so  many.....    Few women have had such a devoted and caring husband. Steven She's my mom Mom, I just returned home from Brazil where I spent the past 3 months. Every now and then, while I was away and sending emails from an internet cafe, I would take a quick look at this site, just to see your smiling face and also to read any new comments that may have been posted. I really regret that you are not able to be around to share in so much with us all. I know you would take great delight in hearing about all my adventures in Brazil. Others may listen politely when I speak about my trips, but I know you would be genuinely interested in hearing and seeing EVERYTHING.... down to the last digital photo... down to the last souvenir. I know you would be so proud of me right now for getting out there and living in the world. Oh, something happened one day on the beach that made me think of you and smile. About a month ago, I was walking on Ipanema beach, which was rather crowded with people, mostly young people, all engaged in very social activities: talking with friends, playing soccer, riding the waves, etc.. Suddenly I came upon a woman, sitting alone, on a towel, maybe in her 40s or 50s... as I passed her I noticed her digging for something in her bag.... when I took a second look, I watched her as she very carefully applied lipstick to her lips, while checking her lips in a small hand mirror. It was a very funny scene.... all the activity around her didn't make her flinch.. she just concentrated on her important task. Well, it made me stop and think of you.. and of course it made me smile. In that moment I felt that you were with me. I couldn't help but think of all the napkins and tissues I would find around the house or on the table in a restaurant, with an imprint of your big red lips!! Strange the things you remember about a person. On another day, as I sat and watched the sun setting, I found myself thinking of you and of all things...your HANDS! I have a very vivid memory of your hands.. including your "injured" thumb nail. I remember you telling me how you once stuck your hand in your pocketbook while you were in school and how you got stuck with a protractor. Anyway, your hands will be etched in my mind forever.. for so many reasons... they are the hands that comforted me when I was young..... they are the hands that made my favorite meals (including chicken cutlets!!)....they are the hands that wore your wedding ring, your engagement ring and all the other rings that I remember you wearing. Anyway, I could go on and on with so many little memories that I have . I don't usually write things here on this site, but for some reason I was in the mood tonight. And to tell you the truth, writing these things right now and remembering all these little details, made me feel closer to you than I have in a long time. It's not that I don't think of you regularly, of course I do, but in this moment, I feel like you are with me RIGHT NOW.... like I am talking to you.. not sure why .. it just feels different in this moment.. well, maybe you are with me now.. here.... in this room that I am in ... my old bedroom in Brooklyn!! I am here for the night. I am going with dad tomorrow to the house in Hemlock.... the house that you made a HOME. Anyway, I hope you are here with me... not just here, but everywhere. Ok, I am going to sleep now.... Mom, come visit me in my dreams.... I always like seeing you there... come more often if you can...  love you... Steven Steven my mom Hi Mom... well, I already "talked" to you since I arrived here a few days ago.... "here" being Los Angeles. I am here for a couple of weeks visiting Joy and some other friends for my birthday. Well, you probably know all this already since I am sure in some way you are watching over me. As I zip around the Pacific Palisades, and drive along Sunset Blvd., passing through the neighborhoods of Bel Air, Brentwood and Beverly Hills, I cannot stop thinking of you as well as feel your presence. I know how much you loved it out here and I can hear you say over and over again, in your enthusiastic, melodic voice, "Oh, I could live here"!!  It makes me smile and laugh every time. Well, maybe your wish has come true in way, because while I know you are with me, Bruce, Dad and Ilene on the east coast, I also imagine you now, sitting on a beach chair, on Malibu beach, surrounded by old and new hollywood stars.... just taking it all in...enjoying the sounds of the ocean... taking nice walks along the shore as you look at the houses... and of course, no walk of yours would be complete, without a conversation or two with some hollywood star or producer that you have always admired.. and whom you know EVERYTHING about. And of course, they would be taken with your famous smile and engaging personality as well ... so much so that they all look forward to running into YOU as much as you them....    Anyway, this is my little fantasy and one way in which I would like to think you are spending your time now.... doing all the things that for one reason or another you weren't able to do in your lifetime "here"... who knows, maybe now it is all so much better.. "there". I hope...  I am thinking of you mom and wishing you were here with me to celebrate my 41st birthday next Friday..    with love  steven Steven my mom Mom, yesterday was your 3rd anniversary in Heaven. Well, if there is such a thing as Heaven, for sure you are being housed at "The Four Seasons", in their best room, with a spectacular view of the ocean....   Dad and I visited you at the cemetery yesterday. For me though, I find I just don't feel close to you there. In fact, it is probably the one place that I feel the most distant from you. Like you are not even there. And I think I figured out why. When you were here with us physically, you were so full of life and with such good energy, that it is just not possible to see you any other way. I still feel you are with me and around me as I live my day to day life. I feel you everywhere I go and with everything I do. A cemetery is for people with no life, but you are still so alive to me, in so many ways, that I just cannot feel your presence there. But that is ok. I think it is a good trade off. I would rather continue feeling your presence everywhere else... Nancy Nearman Through memories from her Aunt Dorothy & Cousin Mel Life is so ironic. I came across this website on a fluke by doing a google search for something totally unrelated. This website was amongst the search results.    I recognized the name and thought it could not possibly be the same person that her aunt Dorothy and Cousin Mel spoke of. When I scrolled thru the website and saw a picture of her husband Joe (who I had sat next to 2 months ago at Addie's wedding) I quickly realized that it was the same Marilyn.    I took time to look thru the entire website and was very moved by its content. It is obvious that she was a remarkable woman who loved life and the people around her. It is very apparrent that there is so much love in your family and that is where she found her strength to continue her battle against the terrible disease that ultimately took her life.    Although, I have only met her children and husband briefly, I feel as if I know them and Marilyn too. I am sorry that I never had the pleasure to actually meet her but know that she is someone that I would have enjoyed speaking and relating to. It is comforting to know that the world has people like Marilyn in it....whether they are here physically or spiritually.    I commend her children and husband for taking the time, energy and generousity to share her story with others so they may benefit from it. Just from knowing the type of individual she was, I am sure she would be very proud that you chose to use this venue to carry on her legacy. Creating Marilyn's Place exemplifies the values by which she lived.    It has also inspired me to gather the memoirs and history of my own family in a similar way so it can be passed on and how important it is to keep those memories alive. Ilene Harrison she's my mom Happy Birthday, mom.    It is so hard to believe that this past August 4th was 3 years since you passed away and sadly left us.  That is one thing that I won't truly ever get over. Life is good, but there will always be something very special and important missing as well as an underlying quietness. You were vivacious, strong, a lover of life and us and you had so much to first begin to experience. Plus, I looked forward to sharing all of it with you, and of course you sharing in our lives.  This note will be short as it is very late and I have to get up soon. You know how I can get started on a project and stay up late.  Mom, I know that you are still here for us. I see and hear you each and every day in so many ways.  I wish I could give you a big hug and kiss, and get a red lip mark on my cheek from you. Would love to hold your hand and feel your love. I do though and will always continue to.    You were cheated, as were we.  May your own special heaven be lifting you up to feel healthy, free and happy.    We love you mom .....  Bruce Brodoff She is my fabulous Mother Mom –    Today is your 66th birthday, and I am sitting in the house in the Poconos – the house that is still so infused with your style and spirit – thinking about you.    It is hard to believe that it is a bit more than three years since you passed away, and more than four years since your illness robbed us of the energy and vitality that brightened all of our lives.    But you accomplished so much, and touched so many people, during your too-short life that even in death you remain a constant source of inspiration and love.    You are ALWAYS in my thoughts, so I decided to finally collect and share them with all the people not fortunate enough to be able to call you Mom.    My earliest memories of you involve sound, color, and movement.     I may have been too young to understand all that was around me, but I sensed that I was in the middle of a whirlwind. I remember that your clothes contained vibrant colors and patterns, and that your cosmetics drawer was a rainbow of powders, lipsticks and mascara.    I remember that you were always singing and that you were always in motion. Taking care of the kids, cleaning the house, doing laundry, going food shopping, cooking....you never stopped.     And I remember that you could spend all day Saturday cooking and cleaning, and then leave for an evening out looking like a movie star.....    I remember how you used to invite friends over the house for a drink and appetizers before going out.....how you would put out cut-up vegetables and dips, pretzels and cocktail peanuts and cantaloupe cubes with the little wooden toothpicks sticking out of them...I tried not to eat all the cantaloupe before company arrived......     I also remember trying to go to sleep to the sound of you and your girlfriends playing an occasional after-dinner game of Mah Jong, the sound of your game tiles clacking and the grown-up smell of perfume and coffee filling the house.....    I remember all of the birthday parties you would throw for us, inviting all the kids from the building for ice cream and cake and games.....and all the impromptu coffee and cake get-together's you'd have for your neighbors, and how you'd welcome all the new people who moved onto the floor. You always became their new best friend.....    I remember that you would go on major shopping trips to Key Food and have the groceries delivered in big cartons....and how we would help you unload the boxes and put away everything. You always would make me happy by buying me the things I wanted....especially the "astronaut-themed" foods that were popular with kids in the late 60's and early 70's, Tang and some freeze-dried chocolate stuff that you used to pack in my lunch box.     I also remember that during the summer months you would always buy a big piece of watermelon every few days. Every time, without fail, you would take the piece out of the bag, hold it up over your shoulders and announce: "WAAAAATERMELLLON!" You told me that's how the fruit man used to sell his wares on the streets of your neighborhood when you were a little girl.....    I remember that you were an incredible cook.....everything you made was good..... Lasagna, meatloaf, tuna croquets...... Roasted chicken with your secret sauce, which you told me was made with orange juice and ketchup and spices.....You loved the story about how one day I came home from junior high school and told you that I smelled your chicken while sitting in one of my classes......and then you took me into the kitchen to show me the freshly-made roasted chicken cooling on the counter.......    It was always a favorite moment to come home from school and see your chicken cutlets draining on paper towels....As a kid I always liked to watch you make them, and help you dip them in eggs, milk and breadcrumbs before frying them in oil.....    And no discussion of your cooking skills would be complete without mentioning your brisket and stuffed cabbage....you faithfully recreated the recipes handed down from your mother and grandmother, giving these dishes an "old world" flavor no restaurant could ever match. One of the biggest regrets I have about turning vegetarian for six years is missing out on these dishes!    I remember that you were a big fan of salty foods, like pickles and olives...you even wrote in your memory book that when you were a little girl you used to buy a sour pickle everyday after school.....you must have eaten a lot of these things while you were pregnant with me, because I love them too....and you can be sure I think of you whenever I eat them......